Melissa "Missy" Rothstein (formerly Margera) is an American model and photographer. She is known for her former marriage to professional skateboarder and MTV stunt man, Bam Margera. Missy and Bam married on February 3, , at the Loews Hotel in downtown Philadelphia. In October , Margera told Howard. Aug 26, - Just before Bam Margera and his now wife Missy Rothstein Margera were Most men would not want every other man seeing their wife naked.